Your dog is from another culture and has come to
live with you, not knowing or understanding your language and customs. In a perfect world
he would understand our language and you could explain why you need to make rules and take
some decisions on his behalf. In the real world your puppy may only understand the rules
he learned in the litter from his mother and siblings. Their primary means of
communication would have been with body language and some vocalisation. When he left his
mother and siblings he should by then have learned how to live co-operatively with other
dogs BUT will not yet learned how to live co-operatively with his new family.
It is very sad that some
owners are still being advised and encouraged to train their dogs by in a confusing way.
By ignoring them completely some of the time and at the opposite end of the scale by
shouting, shaking, alpha rolling, smacking or using unpleasant equipment in an effort to
gain control. Both ends of the spectrum can create a really uncomfortable and unpleasant
relationship which could trigger fearful, reactive behaviour which can excalate out of
control.
In this day and age, a pet
dog is much more a part of the family and has greater access and freedom around the home.
This only becomes a problem when owners are not aware of the dogs natural drives and
instincts. Some privileges allowed are not important in human terms but can be very
significant to your dog who is . I have tried to highlight causes of confusion that may
lead to a breakdown in communication and the development of common problems.
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